Phenomenal Relationship Program

Deep, profound, and phenomenally fun relationships.

There aren’t many examples of committed relationships that are vibrant and FUN, and the divorce rate is ablout half the people that decided to get married.

Your parents probably didn’t model open communication and passion in their relationship. (If they did, you’d probably want to do it different anyway!)

Having an abundant mindset and leading a spiritual life doesn’t guarantee that you won’t be frustrated with a relationship that’s less than awesome.

It should be easy, right?

You love them, they love you….happily ever after, right?

Yeah, I believe in that too, but there’s a few more steps in between, and the story gets even better than the fairy tales.

Simple strategies for couples who are ready to take the next step in their commitment to each other.

  • Create or rejuvenate intimacy on all levels. (BTW: your partner does not need to learn them or participate.)
  • Easy techniques to take the enjoyment of intimacy up to the next level, no matter how long you’ve been together. Premarital couples are geniuses for taking the time to learn these!
  • How to deal with inevitable changes and challenges that show up.
  • How to nurture and expand the relationship so you both never stop growing and continue to experience greater joy, love and fulfillment.
  • Prevent pain and misunderstanding when you understand your partner’s personal dynamics and priorities.
  • Deepen your intimacy, and turn up the fun with simple actions that make a big difference.


Phenomenal relationships do not happen by chance, as a result of chemistry, good luck or convenience.

There are skills that need to be practiced and applied that will determine the level of fulfillment that a couple will experience in their relationship or marriage. Here are some of them:

  1. Discover and understand your own personal needs and intentions. Because when you know what you want and are successfully meeting your own needs, you are less stressed and more creative. You are happy even when independent of your partner.
  2. Explore and recognize the secret needs of your partner and how to meet them. Create an environment of exciting polarity when you know what your partner really needs (and how they need it!) for keeping the infatuation fresh and making your partner feel like royalty.
  3. Uncover fun & sexy, fulfilling ways to meet both your relationship needs together. You’ll be surprised to learn the small tweaks that make the phenomenal difference!

Lets talk and find out if this is right for you both!



It’s my wish to help bring more joy and happiness to couples everywhere. It’s all about LOVE!  To raise the bar on successful partnerships (and set a great example for the next generation!) and assist you in creating a harmonious, safe, healthy, and hot relationship…while respecting the vulnerability, power and privacy of the both of you.

As a woman whose experienced the pain of betrayal, divorce and how not to let destructive repetitive patterns ruin a good thing, I am a sympathetic ally. Currently I’m enjoying and loving my husband for over 20 years. We have successfully navigated plenty of shifts, moves, conflicts and confrontations and come out of  them even more devoted to each other than before. We have 3 kids and still make time for hot romance and fun.

I am passionate about relationships and magical self-care and how they work together  Just so you know, I’ve got multiple certifications for health & fitness, relationship coaching, meditation, marriage education, and healing.. and researched thousands of books, studied with beloved mentors, participated in and facilitated countless sacred ceremonies, relationship healings, women’s circles, and sacred space for spiritual counselling and have integrated the metaphysical and the practical for over 30 years…So I can help you in an integrated way too.

Also, I have made some massive mistakes, tried making a religion out of people pleasing, lost my cool, and know exactly what it’s like to have no boundaries or an ounce of self respect…So I know that when I see it too, but seriously, I have an intuitive knack for uncovering your loving truth(s), beauty and desires . (Psst..You do too!)

” You always give great advice and help me to see things from my husband’s perspective so that I understand where he’s coming from….and I’m way less angry!.”  Goddess C.A.H. in West Palm Beach, FL

I like to use some astrology-psychology to fill in the blanks, and learn more about you and your partner, when you or your partner have trouble articulating your feelings…But I love listening to you and understanding your world, and who and what you want in it! Astrology is an insightful tool.

This process can be very pleasurable…and the rewards are great.

“What I always love about your sessions is how it seems to be a ‘cleansing time’ for me…Good for my Mental, Spiritual and Physical Self……Better than Therapy!”
–Sister Goddess K.M Patchogue, NY

Knowing yourself and each other through this process is illuminating, uplifting and fun.  I’ll share strategies you can use each and every day, that makes your lives more fun, sexy, and filled with inspiration. Enjoy even more love and intimacy, and way less confusion and aggravation, as you move towards each other in new ways that feel great.

  • Clarification of your needs, and a sexy ‘quick fix’ on the very first call
  • Unraveling, unfolding, explaining, and healing the past that feels good.
  • Expanding your vision to make it even better together, getting what you both truly need in ways that are safe, easy and fulfilling.
  • Exploring the strategic elements that enhance your personal joy, health and vitality.. and finding the time to implement them too.
  • Identify your themes & patterns and how they play out with conflicts, progress, and coping mechanisms.
  • Addressing communication breakdowns, misunderstandings, and healthy ways to move past it/them.
  • Uncover your values, desires, and true needs with a simple process.
  • Improve your primary relationships.. not just with your partner, but family, co-workers, children, and friends too. These skills work for everyone!
  • Learn how to Establish “you-time” with boundaries and time management techniques.
  • Reduce your stress significantly, and deal with conflict constructively.
  • *Bonus* (for the Goddess in the Relationship) You are given Access to the current Goddess Sanctuary:  potent practices, workouts, meditations, and exercises designed to make you look and feel like a Love Goddess every day.

We’ll do this together . Only one partner has to participate. (but both of you are welcome anytime)

Relationships can evolve if one of you initiates the shifting.

Do you have  relationship questions?

Want to know if this is right for you?

Write me at

or Let’s talk. 

Facilitated by Jessamina,

a marriage educator and relationship coach

that’s still having fun after 20 years with her husband

and their 3 boys.