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Even though you value and care for the relationship you have with your partner more than most things on this good Earth…..
It’s ridiculously easy to get distracted with the busyness of life.
The hustle and bustle gets out of hand easily, and just like that, you’re taking your significant other for granted. Time passes and before you know it, neither of you is getting your needs met.
The good news is there are lots of ways to stay connected and build a loving, nurturing relationship that continues to grow.
Scheduling fun Dates for more Spark
People often think that if a relationship is strong enough, it’ll survive anything. While that may be kinda true, you still have to put conscious energy into keeping your relationship strong and healthy.
That’s where scheduling weekly or monthly dates and intimate weekend getaways can make a big difference.
Uninterrupted time doing the specific stuff you both like strengthens the bonds between you. Sometimes these outings are unorthodox. That’s a good thing. Why should your good time look like anyone else’s? For example my idea of a hot date involves motorcycle riding and a rock concert.
The more you know someone the more you may discover things you both like together that will give you even more fulfilling experiences. When you have more shared interests, relationship satisfaction improves.
I love helping couples discover even more shared interests through their unique astrological blueprints and unique experiences.
You’d be surprised to know that the astrology-psychology of relationships is enhanced by unusual-and-specific cues, words, and environments that honor the individuals..as individuals AND as a couple.
This is part of a bespoke curation process that happens with relationship coaching, and it makes a huge difference in keeping that spark, sparkling.
Whatever you choose to do to honor the time spent together, this is time apart from work, friends, and family. Regular relationship care will keep the romance alive and help you stay connected physically and emotionally.
Communicate Your Needs for more spark
Your relationship should be a space where each of you can express your needs and desires without criticism. It should also be a safe space where you can talk about sticky or difficult topics without fear of being judged.
Saying flowery undistracted things is not enough though…Loving someone doesn’t mean pretending that everything is fine and peachy all the time. In the The Relationship Magic Makeover there’s also strategies that helps build bridges and smooth things over when it gets rough.
You want to always be able to say when something’s bothering you without feeling like you need to keep it bottled up inside.
Your partner should feel the same way too.
There’s a specific way for you to communicate that’s helpful, kind and effective. Sometimes you need an impartial loving coach to help you or your partner see the others’ perspective more clearly. It’s just smart.
One thing I want to add here is about taking time to talk without looking at screens or doing other activities. Reducing distractions is essential to real conversation and builds TRUST.
– The more you communicate with people without distractions, the more you learn who they are.
You’ll learn each other’s communication styles better and start understanding each other more when you pay attention.
Knowing what the other person means when they talk to you helps all aspects of the relationship.
This helps build positive memories too– When you think back to your entire life, you’ll be focused on the memories you’ve built with those closest to you. You can’t make memories if you aren’t focused on the person or the present moment.
I can tell you that MOST relationship problems are misunderstandings or misinterpretations of their partners meaning.
Keep a wide open channel of communication to keep your relationship healthy or get help with this tonight!
Appreciating Differences for more spark
It’s nearly impossible for couples to agree on everything, all the time. This causes a lot of arguments that turn into resentment and hurt if not dealt with in the right way.
In other words, you have to learn how to argue and discuss constructively rather than just bash each other for ‘wrong think’. The best way to do that is to respect each other’s different points of view.
You can also take it a step further and express gratitude for your partner and how they are different from you.
This is artful stuff. I know. It’s not easy. I’m fortunate to be able to help couples figure this out.
This is just you loving your partner for who they really are. You get to enjoy being with them even more and they appreciate being seen in this new context.
This will help encourage more of what you admire about them and the ways they show you love and appreciation in return…even when you have differences.
More Affection for more spark
We all express our love differently.
So, it’s imperative that you make an effort to find out what your partner’s preferences for receiving love are. This will give you an appreciation for all the things they do for you too. I have a fast track process for figuring this out in the Relationship Magic Program, but the opposite is also true.
Your significant other should also be aware of your love preferences in order to keep your relationship healthy and thriving.
Plus, it can go a long way towards showing your partner that you find them desirable. Doing little specific things AND grand gestures that are meaningful to THEM can show them how much you love and cherish them and will solidify your relationship and remove any uneasiness or doubt.
Oh! AND relieves stress too.
Research results “illustrate that affectionate communication from one’s spouse is related to hormonal stress regulation and suggest that increased affectionate behavior in romantic relationships may have stress-ameliorating physiological effects.”
See Them Through Other People’s Eyes for more spark
Just as it’s essential to spend time alone-time-together, it’s equally important to spend time together-with- others. It can help you see your partner in a new light and remind you of all the qualities you love about them.
This is especially true if you’re hanging out with friends or people from work. Seeing your partner talking and engaging with other people allows you to see how cool, personable, and fun they are.
Very hot!
So tell me… are you ready for
đź–¤Intuitive, strategic coaching to heal your heart from past hurts and resentment so you can both grow to the next level of understanding and love?
💜Seeing clearly and healing your family’s early influence and imprints on your relationships?
đź–¤Creating a self care plan- and couple-care plan based on your personalities and goals?
đź’śUncovering your hottest attributes and how to enhance them for each other?.
đź–¤More togetherness and the art of more loving negotiation to solve your most current conflicts?
đź’śBetter intimacy and understanding?