🔊🎧WOULD YOU RATHER LISTEN?🎧🔊
It’s time to activate more compassion and love.
For both yourself and others.
This cosmic opportunity can show you what you need to feel safe and secure. It’ll also give you insight into what the people you care about need to feel safe and secure.
That’s how this timing works. There’s this unconditionally loving -mother-ly water-y emotional realm that wants you to explore your relationships….Relationships to yourself, to the ways you care for yourself, your home, friends and family.
It’s the Cancer archetype.
Like the King of Cups in the Tarot system representing emotional balance, romantic love and wisdom.
Like the Queen of Cups, symbolizing instinctual love, kindness, and sensitivity.
Cancer is the Mother of the zodiac.
The mama archetype that’s feeding everyone nourishing soul food- right from their metaphorical big boobs..and men who can hold you with their strength.
But also like the empath …whose got the ability to read emotions, body language and tone, in two seconds flat.
They know the real truth with scary-accurate gut instinct.
So incredibly Intuitive.
This is a secret that makes Cancer people wonderfully erotic lovers.
They psychically know what feels good while being sublimely attentive…does it get any better?
The cool thing is, YOU are accessing your Cancer-narian powers right now too.
Even if these traits aren’t typically your strong suit, just know that this transit will have you nurturing others and yourself in more meaningful ways.
Even if, normally, you’re oblivious and selfish.
You could cuddle up and get mushy with someone you trust.
You might check up on your loved ones and show them how much you care.
But…there’s that hard-shelled part of your psyche..
Just like Cancer’s totem, the crab, (-that rules the stomach and your soft gooey digestive system.)
It can be difficult to be vulnerable.
I personally have 3 planets in Cancer, so… I KNOW.
Being quite familiar with the side of the personality that wants to protect the underbelly…
The part that does NOT want to endure getting any more feelings hurt….
Not wanting to be the first to show emotion….even though there is ALOT of emotion.
I see this all the time.
Even in seriously committed relationships.
I created a practice especially for women called The sacred Dance of Protection and Nourishment. You can try it out in the Membership for this current solar cycle ending July 21. Guys, you can join too, but you may prefer drumming to that practice rather than dancing….
Cancer’s precise location in your Astrology chart is where you need to walk around with some self-protectiveness, but still effectively share your gifts.
Not easy right?
We live in a complex world…and I’d love to peek at your astrological map and learn more about you…..
In the end, it all Boils down to boundaries, baby…boundaries.
Be gloriously protective of yourself.
If there’s anyplace where you’ve been exploited or taken for granted…
You could retreat a bit to manage your anger.
Honor that you’ve got self preservation enough to ditch those narcissistic jerks, if necessary,
and certainly practice some healthy detachment (without a hint of self-destructiveness) when you need to.
...Breathe...
Tune in to your emotions. They are powerful indicators right now.
What are they telling you?
Connect with your belly and your own true needs.
I’m shocked by how many people don’t know what they need and then feel hurt when their partner seems totally selfish or appears uncaring.
It’s a total misunderstanding!
As a relationship and wellness coach for over 12 years, I have a special knack for helping find out what’s really going on and finding diplomatic solutions that feel good. Fast.
A Relationship magic makeover can turn it all around fast.
In under 2 hours. For real.
Astrology is my secret weapon (along with strategic coaching) to get to the heart quicker than talk therapy.
Intuitive strategies that are in alignment with your personality make them easier to implement.
It’s way better than the garbage advice you’re getting on tiktok. No time for coaching? Maybe try out journaling.
You can find thoughtful prompts and another DIY insightful practices, including a ‘note to self ‘ service to remind you of your own illumined brilliance. All included in the Self Care Membership.
Even more important, you must find ways to relax.
There’s a fluid, flowing, ebb and flow that goes along with all this emotional stuff.
Cancer’s a water sign.
The water element cleanses the spirit, the moods, the emotions and the body.
Try a delightful soak, a magical shower, a swim, walk on the beach, or just some fresh water in a beautiful sentimental glass from your favorite Gramma.
Next, make yourself more physically comfortable… maybe fluff pillows or try a blanket on the grass or a hammock in the shade.
Then try some kind, encouraging, inner dialogue with yourself.
Feels good right?
Maybe you need to take inventory of your actual assets and tend your finances to feel secure and relaxed.
Everyone is different -and has different thresholds for what makes them feel safe.
Maybe just moving your body- or doing something that makes you feel like your needs truly matter.
Because they do.
This Cancer timing continues now through July 21st.
It’s important for you to have a space to be open and receptive to what’s really good for you.. Best advice?
Double down on your summer self care.
Easiest ways are already put together for you. Get the Astrologically aligned system to elevate your mood and uplift your spirit. You can peek at this month’s content here.
Visit The Cosmic Self Care membership area- where you can find on demand practices like functional stretches, conscious prompts, sacred movement, relaxing techniques, meditation journeys, a ‘mid-year reset‘, and lots more. (See what ELSE you get here.)